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Old 04-01-2012, 07:01 AM
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I am bisexual. Back in the day, I thought it would be lovely to have a couple. My experience back then was with men who had way higher sex drives then I did. I thought if I shared a man with a woman, it would work out to match my drive better, and I wouldn't have to be the only one satisfying him. Although I probably imagined her a dynamo, because I would have enjoyed sex with her too.

A hundred years later, here I am in a vee with two men. One of them is slightly long distance; and both of them have much lower sex drives than I do.

But I love them both beyond reason. I fell in love with both of them after being friends with both of them. (long story can be found elsewhere, life stories and blogs)

I think that's why I wasn't in poly before. I wasn't seeking out a configuration, but these two men showed up and I was ready.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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