Some people would actually very much prefer NOT to meet or talk to their partner's new lovers. How would this woman know whether or not that's the case for you until someone tells her?
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.