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Old 03-31-2012, 02:21 PM
Mudita Mudita is offline
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Gday,
New to the forum and don't have any real experience in poly but this rung a bell for me.

Totally speaking out of my hat here, but from what I understand some people get off on being the knight in shining armour whilst others get off on being the damsel in distress who is saved by said knight.

Any chance of this? Maybe they're both happy as Larry in these roles and as you say, you're the 'victim' here.

A counsellor does sound like a good idea although I've never been to one personally.
I'd imagine a counsellor could give you the whole saved/savior thing chapter and verse and help you work out a way to make sure that in pandering to her every need he's not neglecting yours.

Last edited by Mudita; 03-31-2012 at 02:24 PM.
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