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Old 03-31-2012, 02:46 AM
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Oh, I just re-read your first post. It just sounds like you all need to sit down and talk together, instead of relaying conversations back and forth to each other and guessing what this one means or that one means. Seeing other people, talking to other people, condoms, no condoms, not wanting to sound presumptuous - oh boy. Let me just put it bluntly. If you're comfortable enough to get naked with these people and fuck them, you should be able to ask them whether or not they're fucking anyone else.
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