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Old 03-29-2012, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted by JustBtwUs View Post
@NovemberRain - Well, I know those details b/c I asked. Do most people do this with a strict "don't ask, don't tell" policy?
It's not about strict DADT, it's about privacy. When I broke up with First bf, and before I had started dating Current bf, CBF asked me about FBF's penis. I ignored him (we were chatting on the internet). I wanted him to know I would also protect his privacy, should we ever go there (which we ended up doing).

Especially given that she's not into you that way, I find it rude for her to be telling you all that she's into with him.

Just because you asked doesn't mean she had to tell you all those details. Many of us would have said, 'I had a good time, and I'm not going into details.' or whatever.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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