I understand its hard. I eventually just decided to let it go and accept what I had with my ex boyfriend that only wished to see me once a month. I turned to other people and found other situations to invest in as a result. It was sad and didn't make the break up easier, but I at least wasn't wasting my time. I tried to "fix" the situation and that is where I failed. I wasn't getting much out of the situation by the end and apparently neither was he so shit hit the fan and now we're done. You can read about it in my blog from Jan 2012 until now.
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