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Old 03-27-2012, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted by PolyCurious4 View Post
Hubby is also comfortable knowing that she and he may not always been on the same page as her Hubby and I are.
Good, because having a goal of two couples always being equal in how they feel about each other is just plain impossible. Every individual has ebbs and flows in their emotions and each dyad will have its own dynamic. It's not a race nor competition. So, it's good that you all talked about everything.
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