Originally Posted by PolyCurious4
At the end of the evening when we thought we were all going to say our goodbyes and he did kiss me Hubby relayed to me that she turned away because evidently it was uncomfortable for her.
So yes you two couples should to have clear discussions with your spouses about PDAs, and then you four should talk about your feelings on the matter (heck even in an email) so you can see if your comfort levels overlap, and everybody is on the same page.
FYI, your Husband shouldn't assume she turned away because she was uncomfortable. When I am right there when my husband gives somebody a goodnight kiss, I look away to give them privacy. Maybe she was uncomfortable, but there are other explanations, which is why being on the same page will be so useful.