KM34 - Oh, I'm not upset with him at all nor at her. That was just honest gut reaction - jealousy I didn't receive what I normally would had he and I been intimate alone.
SNeacail you're right we need to have a real straight forward conversation. Hubby and I have perfected our communication over the years and I like to think I'm good at articulating my needs and receiving the same requests. I don't know why this is so hard. I guess it's because I feel very vulnerable because I like him.