NYCindie and bastet and definitely on to something- the puppy-pile post-coital cuddling does wonders for my swinging lifestyle. I absolutely demand that there only be one bed involved when I swing, so couples can't "run away" from each other. I don't like separate swinging or "swaps;" I like what I call "couplesomes." Everyone is involved together. And then when everyone collapses at the end, they do that together, too.
I think you need to talk to the new couple about this. It's likely they will understand. Good luck!
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