how old are you and your Bf?
Is it possible that with in the past year that your bf's feeling have grown ...for you and your son ... a deep love and affection ...which is why he shed the other girls. Could that have been a grand gesture to show commitment or love...direction for the future?
Who looks after your son when you go on these dates?
I don't think I'd try lying saying it's just different especially when you don't feel that way ....you like give it away.
If being poly is a life identifying thing for you, this is one of the truths that has to be acknowledged. And it maybe painful to hear but the truth is the truth...not everyone is playing pro football, hockey, soccer , etc.. either. At least he can decide how he wants to respond or react to such knowledge.....which could be the reason for the question in the first place.
Last edited by dingedheart; 03-26-2012 at 08:09 PM.