Hence my dilemma. I have TRIED to talk to her. But she simply will not. She avoids all instances for us to talk privately. And based on her telling him these blatant lies, violating my privacy, why would she want an honest conversation with me? There is nothing honest about it on her end.
As you can see here, by my posts and from how I have communicated with him, that I have no problem with providing my thoughts.
I'm not trying to be an opposing force, I am trying to work together, which he clearly recognizes.
And I do cut him slack in defending her. He should. I just hope that he offers me the same courtesy.