Oh my she sounds selfish. Her complete lack of concern for your feelings tells me something very clearly. This is not polyamory. This is an affair leading up to the dissolution of a marriage. Sorry.
30 yr old female college grad.
Second wife of legally married couple for about five years.
Bio mom of two and second mom of three.
Share home, parenting, and finances with family.
"I myself am, strange and unusual. "-Lydia Deetz