Originally Posted by dingedheart
ha ha. Ya, sounds like it. It also sounds like you just had good boundaries around the details you wanted to know about and what she was willing to share. I find that to be different than a DADT. To me a DADT is about everything that a person does with another person under the realm of creating a relationship, maintaining that relationship and seeing others for the purpose of sex. To me its a policy that denies that there is anything going on at all. Kind of a "sweep it under the rug" policy, rather than an "I don't want to know details policy."