The Fantastic Victory Thread!
This is the spot where everyone and anyone can share how they made small victories in their new relationships.
Thanks to many responses to my posts, I decided to set myself up for success and have company over when my spouse is with our lover. A couple of people said they were busy, and right as I was starting to feel discouraged, I thought I'd ask one of our potential lovers. We ended up staying up and talking until about midnight and snuggled all night. It was such an intimate experience and I didn't feel that gut wrenching jealousy I usually feel, I actually felt compersion! Yay me!
What have been your recent revelations and victories?
"I know what I am, I know what you think I am, but I refuse to be that simple." - Nomy Lamm