Originally Posted by nycindie
Oh that sucks! All this bullshit she was handing you, while she had already cheated and betrayed you!
See what putting people on a pedestal will get you?
She sounds very selfish and like someone who only wants what she wants and is unable to see that there are other things in this world that are more important than getting her way. I feel sorry for her.
You will be okay. I hope you are able to take care of yourself and your kids, and move on. She sounds like the only thing she can offer you is drama and pain.
Thank you for your words. She is someone who honestly can be a little selfish but can be the sweetest person in the world also. At this point I wish her the best and hope all works out for her. Pedestals are something that people can fall from and she actually told me to take her down from hers a long time ago.
My kids are the most important thing to me. The other effect in all of this is that the kids look to her as their mom since my ex wife is not really a mother to them.