I'm sorry if it sounded so. I suppose one could read it that way, but it wasn't my intent.
It sounds like your wife has the chance to work through it quickly if she saw it as a romp in the hay as he did. At least she wasn't in love with him.
I'm sorry, you must feel hurt that your love for this woman can not be realized right now. I hear that you love her. Its just that I saw that as lessoned in terms of what you said about not getting laid. It kind of degraded that for me.
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