I'm a new member from Chicago.
So, my story... My wife and I have been together nearly 19 years and married for almost 16. We have shared our bed with friends on occasion over the years. We've had an open relationship for about five years now.
One of our friends, my best friend, has been with us since the late nineties. About two years ago, my wife realized she had fallen in love with him. (He feels the same.) I think she took it harder than I did, though I can't say I haven't had the occasional worry. Mostly, it's been smooth sailing, though.
So, now I find myself part of a poly relationship. I guess I'm here to learn more about all of this and read others' stories.
I tend to be a bit on the shy and quiet side of things, so I'll probably lurk more than participate. But, I thought I should introduce myself. Nice to "meet" you all.