Oh, and, I'm unsure who called the shots before the illness.
If I had to guess, it would have been her. He's very easy going, go with the flow, keep it simple. She's more the planner. As am I.
In many ways we are very alike. So I've tried to reach out to her but she isn't the easiest to get to know. She seems to try, maybe for his sake. But outside of him, she's kind of withdrawn from me. Again, I keep trying. Sounds utopian, but I really do want us all to get along.