I liked how you said that being mono is what makes you be your best in your first post. Something like that. Thankyou for that.
Thankyou ygirl for pointing out what was making me uncomfortable. Where is the third in all this?! Its a skewed dynamic you are talking about. It would be better to find a blow up doll. Its essentially a "unicorn" you are looking for. As I agree, this would be a threesome.
I would suggest girlfriend not involve you at all at first and see where it all goes. Its her thing after all and it bugs me that she is being rather bossy and selfish about it. I get that she is putting out their her needs, but why should you be around for that?
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