Originally Posted by newtoday
a vacation in which he and I shared the bed the entire time while she slept alone.
This might be the issue with the passive-aggressive behavior. I imagine that she felt pushed aside and abandoned while on vacation. Even if this arrangement was her idea, sometimes we don't know how we are going to feel once we are actually in that situation. You guys may just need to talk about it more next time and find a better arrangement that allows each of you to feel special.