Nicraq, I agree. We do have a good thing. But he does want me to tell him when I'm confused, troubled, rather than bottle it up inside. So I will, carefully.
I would never put him in a position to defend her, I will always be respectful. I just hope that she offers me the same courtesy. And if not, that he is just as defensive of me. He does love me, of that I am sure.
You dont sound unsympathetic at all, just honest and I appreciate it alot!