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Old 11-24-2009, 06:45 PM
GroundedSpirit GroundedSpirit is offline
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Default Probably safe & necessary exploration

Hey Christian,
I think it's probably safe territory to explore - maybe even necessary. I think most people have at least a little bit of both exhibitionist and voyeur side to them and it would be good for all to find out just where that part sits for you both. She may just have a strong exhibitionist side (or fantasy) that needs exploring. But it may be something else. A power thing. Dominant tendencies ? She will control your place. (All you deep into the D/s thing can add more clarity if need be).
You should find this out- may as well do it now.

You'll also learn the equiv lessons about yourself. How much of a voyeur are YOU ? How important to you is it ? How comfortable are you with her being in control of your desires ?

All good stuff to know about ourselves and prospective partners
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