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Old 03-22-2012, 12:10 AM
nicraq nicraq is offline
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: ireland
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Speaking as a man it sounds like you have a great thing going, and I get his 'compartmentalising' (i.e. together once a week and not much communication between/ keeping her passive aggression off limits) not sure whether it's 'healthy' but very understandable and if you're ok with it then I'd leave well alone!

Back to your original question; yes you are vulnerable but my guess is that he really deeply appreciates what he has uniquely with you and that won't be lost if he gets back the sex life he wants with his wife (it is only my guess though). As to your feelings of jealousy I do think, ultimately, they are something you'd have to deal with carefully and respectfully of their relationship (hope that doesn't sound unsympathetic?)
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