I feel like everything I read on here is stuff I already felt/knew, I just needed to hear it from someone else lol.
That all makes perfect sense & is pretty much what I assumed.
We have our "ideals" but realize, of course, that ideals are generally not real life. Just like my ideal would be to be multi-billionaires & never have to work or worry about bills & be able to travel & never want for anything & put our kids thru whatever college they want. Just cuz it's an ideal doesn't mean it'll ever happen in real life.