Originally Posted by SourGirl
Well, you`re playing the role of the pussy-whipped man.
A role I don't think you initially signed up for, but I hope you see it now.
So instead of ASKING PERMISSION for things, and being told what you can and cannot do, relative to what makes her happy,...How about you find a realistic approach on what you want for yourself, your needs, and what feels fair to BOTH parties.
Present her with it as a subject that needs negotiating, not as asking permission for what you want.
I'm guessing her lover doesn't ask her for permission for hardly anything. I'm guessing you didn't ask for permission in the beginning.
Credit to Somegeezer for prompting these thoughts
Originally Posted by Somegeezer
You did something great to get her to marry you. So you can sure as hell find something to turn her on now. ;]
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)