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Old 03-20-2012, 10:54 PM
SoCalDoc SoCalDoc is offline
Join Date: Feb 2012
Posts: 25

I feel sad for you. First of all, discovering a year-long affair w closest "friend" is devastating. For me (and I'm guessing many others) the marriage would be over right there. How can a person repair and rebuild trust, especially in a situation where the unfaithful spouse insists on continuing the relationship? Wow. You have given your consent to this poly relationship but clearly you are not enjoying it, in fact you sound miserable. This is the part of polyamory that really bothers me--when a person is somehow "coerced" to go along w partner's poly adventures, and the partner goes ahead without much regard for the pain and suffering of their primary partner, in this case the woman he promised to love and protect--it just seems rotten.
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