Originally Posted by Chaz
The agreement goes something like this:
-She can go out and date and have sex while I stay at home with the kids. This has included a couple of weekend trips with her lover.
-I am only allowed to have sex outside the marriage on business trips, not at home. At this point I have not had any success on that front.
So your wife is allowed to have a regular lover but you are only allowed to hook up with people when away? What do you want? If it's not that then maybe it's time to talk about it some more. Do you want to pursue people at home? Why is it ok for her and not you?
I'm new here and don't have a lot of answers about envy etc. but talking about how you feel to her is a good place to start.