So of course everyone has doubts sometimes. I'm slowly heading towards polyamory, but I'm currently in a monogamous relationship that I don't really want to give up. I do love her and sometimes I can see being with her forever, but I'm not sure I can see never wanting to be with anyone else.
Added to that is the fact that in the past I've been pretty terrible at meeting women. I think I'd be better now but...
I worry about giving up something good for this big unknown, and then even finding that I only think I'm poly.
Finally, I'm actually kind of a closed-off person. I'm not super social and I don't do a good job of maintaining friend relationships. A lot of times I'd really rather just be left alone... and even the time/effort involved with one girlfriend seems like so much that how could I possibly be this close to two women?
So I was wondering what other people might have doubts about regarding their lifestyle.
Last edited by onoma; 03-20-2012 at 02:20 PM.