oh, GOOD. I'm so glad to hear you have some peace around this.
And a floofy kitteh! yay! Good actions, nurturing actions, way to go!
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)