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Old 03-20-2012, 02:05 AM
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There is little that pisses me off more than people who think they're "owed" sex and that you're "leading them on" just because you had sex once, or you were friendly, or they like you, or WHATEVER. Fuck that. Fuck. That.

If you can't trust these people to be respectful when you're all just friends, it will get a million times worse if they think they have some actual claim on you and/or your bf. Continue to explore poly if you think you're interested, but not with these people or it will be nothing but drama. Who cares if this woman has feelings for your bf, that doesn't give her the right to expect *anything* before you've all actually talked about it and agreed to what you want.

Avoid this situation. You're not overreacting. If anything, you're underreacting.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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