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Old 03-20-2012, 01:42 AM
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Those people are not poly! They're just into sex and using others to get what they want, it would seem from those kinds of remarks. If they were poly and really wanted relationships with you, and true friends who cared, they wouldn't have been so impatient and crude. If I were you, I would steer clear. As they say, "with friends like this, who needs enemies?"
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