Take a look at my thread sometime. You'll see you're not alone.
Before I met my wife I was a loner. I played video games and was a recluse the entire time I wasn't working. Now I'm a socialite and it's so freaking hard to just sit back and relax. I wish you luck. You just need to find ways to get your mind off of it all.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith
Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old