Life is funny and brings so much unexpected, interesting things.
BTW, we have a long-time member here named River. He hasn't posted in a while but he sometimes takes a hiatus, it seems. So, if you write more about this person using that alias, it might get confusing.
Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership.
Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy!
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
~ Carl Sagan