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Originally Posted by nycindie
Are these aspects really pertinent at all to whether someone doms well or not? I'm not a domme or into the BDSM scene, but I am a plus-sized woman over 40. Is that automatically a negative thing in your eyes when looking at someone's abilities to be accomplished at something?
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Pertinent? Interesting question.
In the context used, neither trait implies any kind of proficiency or lack of proficiency. In this case it was mentioned as traits that I commonly observe associated with someone who uses the "domme" title socially rather than equating said traits with their playtime skills or lack therof.
However if your asking about
Pertinence; Then I would say no, neither trait is pertinent or directly indicative of performance or accomplishment.
As for the second part of your question;
No, not automatically. Depending on context of course.
