Originally Posted by Lotus
I know I need therapy for issues other than the jealousy, and that couples therapy might be helpful as well. I'm just worried that any therapist I/we find will try to tell me/us that we need to close our relationship in order for me to get rid of these issues.
I know someone else can speak to this, but I think on the internet somewhere there's a list of poly-friendly counselors. And you can ask before booking a session.
If you have other issues, working on them might go some ways into relieving the jealousy, too.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)