Thank you I will fix the quote. Sorry about the mistake
Funny I just got off the phone with her while I was here at work. She wants the deadline because of her feelings for him and so she can explore those feelings. As for him not being interested he's definetly interested. The reason that this whole thing came up was that a few weeks ago we were all out having a few drinks and this topic came up. My fiance had never heard of it and began to do a little research and is thinking this might solve all of the issues. She can be with me and him and not have to sacrifice anything including being with my kids.