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Old 03-18-2012, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Alleycat View Post
...most of the self-identifying "dommes" I know are over 40, fat as a cow...
Are these aspects really pertinent at all to whether someone doms well or not? I'm not a domme or into the BDSM scene, but I am a plus-sized woman over 40. Is that automatically a negative thing in your eyes when looking at someone's abilities to be accomplished at something?
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