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Old 03-16-2012, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted by rory View Post
One thing that came to mind: what is it that you want? You seem to be writing and discussing about what Vanilla wants, but not your own wishes.
^This is exactly what I was thinking when I read your last few posts. I feel like you are getting lost and disappearing a little bit into all your concerns for everyone else.

Hullo-o-oooo, where are you?
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