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Old 03-16-2012, 06:43 AM
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Originally Posted by HotPepper View Post
And I saw the look in my current SO's eyes when I was planning on leaving her 2 yrs ago, I was already starting to see someone else (bottom line - I cheated on her) but she was devastated and I couldn't stand myself for hurting her. I went back to her. I always think of myself as tougher then everyone else. But that's not true. I know that i need to lead my life on my terms and have like-minded people with me on the journey.
Just wondering:

Did you ever tell her you cheated?

And another thing. Any talk of poly might be a trigger for her, as in, she might recall that time 2 years ago when you tried to break up with her. Just a guess.
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