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Old 03-16-2012, 01:30 AM
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I do find it unusual that you are so focused on who is making "the moves"
Is there anything that has been keeping you from actually...asking R out for a date? Or tell R you want to be asked out on a date?

Might be totally off based but from here, one thing I thought was "Qarzan kinda likes R but has gotten distracted by H who is shinier (assertive), so has used that as a reason to not bother to get things moving with R. Maybe Q doesn't like R as much as they think they do."

Anyway, sounds like maybe both of you are procrastinating if you and R know that you have intent to date, I'd get to that poly conversation and ask them out.
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