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Old 03-15-2012, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by BrigidsDaughter View Post
As Wendigo put it, your twenties are the perfect time to have those kinds of poly experiences, to experiment, and if it doesn't work out, you've still got your whole life infront of you. So why the big rush to advise against it? I am not saying not to have a conversation about it, but jump in, don't be afraid of what ifs because life is full of them and nothing is ever set in stone.
An interesting perspective. I think most of the advice against moving-in within few months or less comes from reading stories of triad fallouts where getting the "third person" out of the house fast enough for everyone to preserve their peace of mind would be impossible, unpractical and unethical. Like an unicorn moving in with her kids because she was between leases, shit hitting the fan and then the kids have to watch adults fighting because she can't get out fast enough, the couple who invited her in can't make their rent without her contribution, whatever.

Interesting thought about the roomie agreements.
Me: bi female in my twenties
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