drtalon, that was a beautiful, and most helpful post. Thank you!
I wholeheartedly agree. Practice has made me able to recognize triggers sooner and recognizing them sooner has made me able to be less triggered.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)