wow. good to hear about other's feelings about "new".
Wife had her first sexual experience alone with her boyfriend a couple of weeks ago. They had dated several times before that. Now, I'm the poly one by nature but I had butterflies...had to sit and analyze for two days. much better now.
she had to be totally freaking, I know she was, because this was the first time *ever* in her life she had made love alone with another man other than me. all other times in the past few years have been with either me or the wife of the other guy present.
This was also the first time with someone she really cares about other than me.
So many firsts. So many challenges. Such a wonderful result.