Yikes, that really puts a different spin on it. If this woman can't be trusted to do right by her SO, how can you trust her to do right by your SO? I'd be really curious to know what possible reasons she could offer for her cheating that would make her out to be someone either you or your husband would want to trust with your intimate lives. And when it comes to social circles, I wouldn't want my friends to get the mistaken idea that poly = cheating or assume that I condone cheating if they were to find out that my SO was involved in a relationship based on a lie. :/
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.