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Old 11-24-2009, 03:31 AM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Zug zug fun!

I've enjoyed sex in many different circumstances, some of which involved some degree of attachment--from friendship to deep involvement--and others which involved nothing more than lust or simple pleasure-seeking.

I had to figure out long ago if I was wanting sex with some woman just due to hormones or if there was some emotional attachment involved. There were some problems when I thought I wanted sex due to emotions and it turned out I just wanted the physical pleasure. I learned early that lust is different from infatuation is different from friendship is different from love.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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