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Originally Posted by redpepper
Well its not been long since this all panned out though. Time. There is nothing but time. There is no rush for this to unfold I would think. Sometimes the joy is in the journey, not the destination.
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But oh, this journey right now is not joyful. I'm just trying to survive right now.
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Originally Posted by redpepper
Sometimes I learn something from them because I remain open to learn more... sometimes I have something to offer them and change occurs. If they decide that I am worth knowing, and I decide that they are worth knowing then the wonder and curiosity can begin. As soon as I go into it with the aim to change them, that moment of purity is lost. Just my take from a woman who went through the wringer with her poly boyfriend (its a huge part of my blog from Christmas 2010 until this past summer 2011). I'm passing this on as it might help you find some patience with him.  |
Thank you so much. I'll try to be patient.
He makes her very happy and she loves him, so he must be special even though this situation is really painful.