Originally Posted by nouryia
Equal turf...we don't have. Cuddling at my house is more awkward, I have older kids that stay up a lot later and might question why I need to hole myself up in the bedroom to watch tv with him.
His kids are in bed by the time I get there. We mostly hang at his place because his other mates work later shifts (some weekends too) so he's on kid duty for dinner and bedtime 4-5 nights a week and has to be in the house until they get home from work around 9:30 or so. I'm just trying to accommodate him by going over there...not take over her house.
Make-do situation, I get it. Beware of a turf-war for sure.