Originally Posted by Phy
The two aren't always there simultaneously. *
What two ?
How did you decide which one you wanted to be with first ?... in the example you gave. that's what I meant by primary urge.
I'm confused .."there is no primary urge that is more pressing than the other in the case of me longing for both." You said while longing for lin ...you avoided being intimate with Sward because he wouldn't be able to satisfy that longing. In that specific example wouldn't that be the primary urge?
Does the schedule ever conflict with your urges? And what about their urges...do they every conflict with yours and the schedule?