KyleKat, thank you for your perspective! She brought it up to him now because for both of us, I think we'd be ready to have sex (again) right now, and that would make us both very happy. She also, perhaps, envisioned it being a possible problem in the future. I think she made it clear that we'd be willing to hold off for awhile.
Me: 22-year-old female, cis and queer, have identified as poly for ~2 years, currently in my first committed poly relationship
A: Poly boyfriend since 9/17/13, currently sexually open and not seeing other romantic partners but open to such in the future